Yesterday I was going through an article abt the usual rape cases in delhi…
Again a gal was raped in one of the changing rooms in Palika bazaar. (changing room ko bhi nahi choda arent they allowed to chose clothes of their size?????????)Palika bazaar is an underground shopping complex..in middle of C.P. it is a place where u wud find all sort of pirated items .. well I have never been to palika as my friends used to say that its not a nice place.. but I always had this fascination to see that place.. but after reading the article I don’t feel safe to go there...
Men have indulge themselves in crime like eve teasing , rapes…etc.. the no. of rape cases have increased in recent years
But aren’t its unfair for women.. why cant women roam around freely in the city like all the other men.. why they have to be under a stress of getting raped.. or abused by men…. Well the answer people give to these question are that u really cant do anything.. it’s a male dominant society so just take care of yourselves while moving in the city…
Is this the solution for this problem….. even Sheila dixit after administering the rape case said that the laws for the rapist are not that stringent. He cud easily get away with them. No harsh punishments are given to the person, which allow him to commit this crime even more.
although i know that even gals are not wht they call as "dudh ki dhuli" even they attracts peoples attentions andeven they indulge in sexually abusing mem its just that their crime remain un noticed but u can't deny with the fact that the percentage of women indulging in it is far less than from the that of a man.....
Well I wish to study the psychology of a rapist what is that provoke him to do such a thing that could land him up in prison. Is it his desperation for sexual contacts or something else…. cant really say that gal is not desperate for sex. Both are equally involved in it…. But that doesn’t it provoke a gal to go and rape a guy…. Never heard that a gal raping a guy.. so is it desperation that makes him commit such a crime.? Or is that they get bored with having sex with a single person and the fire the heat vanishes between them.. and he is looking for some excitement… well if one looks from a gals point of view even she have sex with the same person so even she should get bored and should start raping men.. but does that happen?.. so why does men only indulge into it?
Earlier there used to be a saying that would u rape ur daughters your sisters ??? well that cnt be used now as there has been cases where a father have sexually abused his own daughters… It is so depressing to hear that a 6 yr old child was raped by his own father.. fathers are there to protect their child from all the mishappening and negativities of his daughter life or to make her life miserable…
Does he think what that goes though after being a victim of his entertainment of his satisfaction. Her complete life turns upside down. She lost control of her life.. she is not only physically hurt but it effect its emotional and mental status… she broke completely from inside…. The criminal know all the aspects pretty well then also he indulge into such a crime why????????????? Just for enjoyment satisfaction.. neglecting all the after effects of it…..
2 comments:
hieee....
So, finally i have REVIEWED your article or more specifically your thinking over these prevailing issues related to the derogatory condition of women in indian society.
Firstly, i would really like to kudos u for choosing such topic which mostly we all want to escape and giving the kind of treatment in article.What i think that these topics have to be handled with "sanjidgi" because it demands analysing over the whole scenario and not restricting yourself in a particular framework.
Like what i think that you could have given the psychology of the raper on a more broader way or the steps which can be taken by the government regarding this.Its naice about your description about the different incidents but try to be give more convincing facts supporting your point of view.
Like you said in the starting that now your afraid of going to palika bazaar.But in the end you can have the stand that its the need of the hour not to fear of these events BUT to stand up for this and like delhi police have been training women about marshel art n stuff under free government providing facilities.You can include that stuff as well,remeber can start the hot topics BUT end it beautifully either with a question which can really push the reader to sit bck and think or with ur opinion to end up the problems.Suggestions ,etc regarding issues r alwz naice in article reviewing.
But,in a nutshell,like again to say that please continue your efforts regading these because the more you will write the more you learn.And doin this regularly more maturity for these topics will definitelly imbued in you.
because, writing article,reviews or any stuff is juss not about ur views on it,but try to maintain a balance of not being inclined juss to one side..present all the faces of the problem n den, ur point of view.Lyk der r many cases in casting couch n stuff, in India Today n other magazines where u find men sexually xploited by women BUT yes, the condition for women is mre derogatory.
Sorry, fr making dat big but keep your motivation goin fr these articles and i shall b xpecting more in future..:)
Kudos deariee
thnks dear for ur comment i really appreciate that and would definelty keep in mind to mentioan all teh aspects of it and not to stick to only one things.. thnks . again for ur comment.. and ya .. ur views are always welcomed so keep writing and keep advicing me.. thnks..
byeee dear...
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